Today I have to say goodbye to my bestfriend who happens to be moving to england. Which got me thinking about goodbyes and which are better, the ones you plan for or the ones that are a suprise? Either way saying goodbye sucks, losing people is always always hard but you know it's life. It allows us to grow and change. Its crucial.
I've said goodbye to alot of people in my time, which I know is rather short but at the end of the day I'd never ever trade the experience I've had with these people. Letting go is the hardest part of saying goodbye.. why do we hang on for so long after someone is gone?
Here's your choice you can let go and reflect on the experiences you've had or hang on for dear life and delve deeper and deeper into delusion. There is no such thing as a clean break, emotions prevent that. Wether we are angry or hurt or sad when the break first occurs emotions keep us attached for a period of time.
They say Time heals all wounds and fixes all breaks but does it really? It could be a broken heart, a broken friendship even a family breakdown... when something like that breaks can we ever really fix it or will pieces always be missing? Picture this - a glass vase falls and smashes on the ground, it's in a billion little tiny pieces.. is there anyway it can be perfectly restored? I honestly don't believe so, what I do believe is that although the old pieces are gone and there will be little holes, new pieces form and build onto what's there, changing what originally was there into something more...
Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I'm right. Maybe there is no way of really knowing.
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