Name Game.

"Queen of Flings" those were his exact words.
Usually I don't care what people say about me, I gave up on that a long long time ago. I decided I was going to be myself and take the good with the bad so why now are his words haunting me? Why are those 3 words making me question myself and everything I am?

First things first what is a fling? How do you define a fling? There are no rules, no boundaries, no time constraints so how do you know if it's a fling or maybe its an open relationship or possibly even an unofficial relationship... I don't like the term fling.. I don't have "flings" I just don't date.

This label really threw me a bit. I'm in no way shy about my life and the lifestyle I choose to lead, but I'm not a promiscuious person, even if I was I still wouldnt care what people, actually most people think. I'm confused as to why I care about this person having this perception of me. Especially considering this person knows very little about my life and relies on gossip for his information.

Is a fling about sex? And where do friends with benefits fit into this equation? Wow, I have a lot of questions don't I... I'd like to know people's opinions of flings and their definitons too.

Queen of flings ayy, well it'd not a title I wear with pride, opposite actually. Because what does that say about me as a person? It doesnt say much at all to be honest. When this was said to me I honestly felt like I'd been hit in the face, maybe it's because it was such a left feild comment or maybe because of who said it, at the end of the day it didn't leave me feeling too flash and has been playing on my mind since monday. (It's now Thursday.) When life throws lemons I guess...